One of the most famous educational quotes ever spoken was by George Evans. He stated, "Every student can learn, just not on the same day, or the same way."
My belief is similar, I believe all students can succeed.
A few years ago my son had a student in his classroom. The student's name was Wade. The year my son was in class with him was a real struggle. As a parent I heard my son complain about the boy. Each time I sat down with him and listened. Then I encouraged him to stand up for himself, to speak with an adult and I also taught him to walk away. Day after day the stories continued. As parents we talked with the teacher and we were assured the situation was being monitored closely.
Unfortunately it wasn't just that Wade pushed and hit, he also made the learning difficult in the classroom. Our son came home with marks on his paper. I asked him what these markings were...Drew said, "Wade wrote on my paper." I could tell young Wade either had it in for my child or was disrupting the learning environment for many kids.
Then it happened.
I received a phone call from the school. I was informed that my son had fallen off a piece of equipment and he was hurt. My wife went and picked him up. When she walked in she could tell Drew wasn't himself. He looked groggy and sad. She immediately decided to take him to the doctor and have him checked out. Before she left she asked Drew what had happened. Drew said, "Wade pushed me." I know my wife and I know that inside she was fuming. Once they arrived at the doctor Drew was taken back for an x-ray. After a bit of time the doctor came out and told us...Drew had a broken arm.
As parents we said all the right things and told him he was going to be fine. I also told him that his Uncle Nick broke his arm as a boy and he turned out to be a doctor. We really tried to pump Drew up. But inside we were both at our wits end. Our family endured a trying year, we met with the school and the teacher, but those were just band-aids. We had to get our son away from young Wade.
As a parent this story is how one child can destroy a safe learning environment. As an educator I will share this...
I believe all kids can succeed! I will stand behind that statement for the rest of my days, but take a good look at that statement...it doesn't say all kids will succeed in every classroom or every school. As educators we must solve the complex puzzle of students. How do they learn best? What are their motivators? What are the strengths and weaknesses? Education is not a one-size fits all approach. Being an educator has allowed me to experience many success stories. I live for the underdog that turns things around and flourishes! Yet occasionally we are thrown with severe challenges. In my 15 years of education I have witnessed so many successes that I can't even count them. Unfortunately I have endured some unfortunate events that still sit with me.
Five years ago I had a child that was simply on the edge. There were many days that nothing negative would occur. But then something would set the student off and when he lost it, it was like an explosion went off. I'll never forget the time I watched the student throw a chair, swear profusely and whip a pair of scissors at people trying to help him. After this occurred the general consensus was fear. Day to day I could see the fear in classmates eyes. Many students did not want to interact with the boy. It was an atmosphere of walking on egg-shells.
As educators we tried hard to NOT poke the bear.
So this leads me to my thoughts. When we talk about creating a successful and safe learning environment we often think this includes ALL students. But what if ALL doesn't mean ALL? What if one student creates an unsafe learning environment? Does this then mean, The Good of All Supersedes the Good of One?
I used to believe ALL meant ALL. Now I believe this, the one thing every family expects is their child will be safe and have the opportunity to learn. This is expected.
My stance has evolved over time. Personal experiences have shaped my beliefs. If one student creates an unsafe learning environment or disrupts the opportunity for others to learn, we as educators must be willing to put the needs of the whole over the needs of one. I still believe all students can succeed, but maybe not in a room with 25 other students.
This Week's Big Question: Have you ever had one student change the entire dynamic of your classroom or school?
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